Winning Your Ex-Girlfriend Back - A Female Perspective

Winning back an ex girlfriend is entirely possible, but it's a job made much easier if you look at things from her own perspective. Seeing things through your her eyes - instead of just your own - is essential to getting back together with your ex.

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One of the first mistakes guys make after being dumped by a girlfriend is to look at the situation narrowmindedly.

No one does this on purpose; yet the thoughts, feelings, and actions you take just after losing your girlfriend are almost purely self-serving.

You're doing what YOU want to do, not what your ex wants - and while trying to reconcile that can be a big problem.

Moreover, you're thinking that everything you're about to do will get your ex to come back to you, when it reality it's only going to push her further away.

Understanding the female psyche right after a break up is crucial to seeing things clearly. The flowers you send, the cards you buy, and the long letters professing love for your ex... these are all unwanted gestures right from the start.

Why? Doesn't any girlfriend desire these things? Yes, but not right now. Right after ending your relationship, your ex will want to avoid you. She's feeling strange and awkward about everything, and being around you will make it worse.

And the more you push? The more awkward it gets. And some guys push until the girl runs screaming in the other direction... and funniest of all, can't figure out why.

Your Girlfriend's Mindset After The End of the Relationship

When your girlfriend calls an end to your relationship, it's not always final. People get back together each day. It could be that she's frustrated or upset at something you specifically did, or it could be the culmination of a lot of different problems.

Most likely, these problems have been around for a while... so you're not going to fix them overnight. The longer you give your ex to think about them, and the more space you give her in which to consider it, the better off you'll be in terms of using emotional reconnection techniques for winning her back.

But let's face facts: guys like to fix things. Quickly, if possible. But in your ex-girlfriend's eyes, your relationship isn't a quick or easy fix. She wants you to realize what's wrong before you come back to her (or she comes back to you). Trying to resolve your issues is admirable, but it's also too little too late.

These problems would've been better addressed while you were dating, and she's taken the drastic measure of breaking up with you to get you to realize them. Your ex isn't looking for you to put a patch over the holes in your relationship, and in some cases she might actually be looking to punish you for a specific time period for what she perceives as wrong.

Clearing Your Ex's Head Before Trying to Get Her Back

Obviously you can't look at things from within your girlfriend's mind, and she's not going to tell you everything that she's feeling. This is where you need to stop and clear your own head by taking some time away.

Dropping out of sight after your ex dumps you is one of the biggest steps you can take toward getting her back. If you're strong enough to shut off your phone and flip off your computer, you'll immediately earn her respect and curiosity. After she cools off she'll begin to look around for you. Not seeing or hearing from you will make her wonder where you went. This process is necessary to getting your ex miss you, which is instrumental in your ultimate goal: making her want you back.

Any girl who breaks up with a guy thinks the same thing: did he really love me? Seeing a guy chase after you is a good indication that you're something to be desired. It's an ego boost for your ex girlfriend, and it'll also allow her to extend the break up for as long as she thinks you're hanging around.

So now imagine the opposite scenario: a girl breaking up with a guy who just disappears. Such a girl wouldn't know whether or not she was missed, because she has no clue what her ex is doing. Instead of knowing she was needed, she wonders if maybe she wasn't needed at all. In fact, maybe she needed her boyfriend more than he ever needed her. This is what gets a girl to question - and possibly even reverse - her decision break up.

Reversing The Way Your Ex Girlfriend Thinks About You

By doing the polar opposite of what she expects, you're keeping your ex interested in you. By remaining strong instead of weak, independent instead of desperate, you're giving off positive, confident vibes. These are a hell of a lot more attractive to your girlfriend than anything else you could do that might include begging, pleading, and trying to worm your way back into her heart.

If your ex doesn't respect you, she won't date you again. You'll fall into the category of "just a friend" or she'll detach herself from you completely and start dating someone else.

Getting back together with your ex girlfriend demands that you be proactive with everything you do. The faster you begin on these things, the more you'll increase the chance for a successful reunion.

From there, you'll be able to rebuild a new relationship on a strong new foundation. And since your ex is the one who wants you back, everything will seem like her own idea. This is huge when it comes to the staying power of your new romance. Anything built together will be stronger than if you built it yourself.

Ex2 Ex Girlfriend System

Having trouble getting your ex girlfriend to talk to you, respect you, or take you seriously?

If so, the Ex2 System has exactly what you're looking for. Created specifically to deal ONLY with getting back an ex girlfriend, this amazing guidebook is an in-depth journey into your exgirlfriend's heart, mind, and the emotional ties she still has toward you even after the breakup.

Created by Ex Back guru Matt Huston, this audio and visual guide to reversing your breakup focuses on every last aspect of fixing a broken relationship.

Feelings, emotions, guilt, blame... forget about all that stuff for now. Huston's Ex2 System is a bare-bones, no-holds barred, in-depth analysis of WHAT to do, WHEN to do it, and HOW to go about not only getting your girlfriend back, but actually getting her to come crawling back to you on your own terms.

A woman's mind is precisely where you need to go, if you want to know exactly how your exgirlfriend is feeling. For this reason, a gender-specific guide gives you a big advantage over a more blanket approach than guides dedicated to 'getting back together' for both men and women.

Most of all, EX2 shows you which female emotional triggers are most effective in making your her remember "the good old days" of your past relationship. This type of nostalgia is a crucial turning point to changing how your ex girlfriend views and sees the breakup.

By using your past history together, guru Matt Huston shows you how to reverse the balance of power and shift control over what happens next BACK in your favor. His non-traditional ideas are non-traditional for a very good reason: they work.

Most important of all, the techniques taught within the Ex2 System include methods you can start using right away. Instead of a slower, more reactive approach to getting your girl to love you again, Matt Huston shows you how to seize every opportunity to start proactively making her love, need, and want a relationship with you again.

Definitely don't miss this FREE audio sample of the EX2 Ex Girlfriend System. Why? Because your relationship sure isn't going to fix itself.

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